MY BLOG#4
Judgement v/s compassion
Most of the times we become harsh and judgemental towards the mistakes made by others n judge even more harshly mistakes made by ourselves.
We blame n curse n start contemplating should haves and could haves.
But the truth of the matter is that whatever happens, happens exactly as it is supposed to be…..its inevitable!
Every situation is exactly how its ought to be.
Every individual has his or her soul plan and soul contracts(story is all set,we are just acting it out).Everything is happening according to the higher plan, in perfect order and in perfect sequence.
So how fair is it to judge the mistakes or situations in others lives and ours!
Lets think about it!
Firstly we need to stop judging others.We should give them enough benefit of doubt coz we do not know the reasons behind a person behaving or reacting in a certain way,we are unaware of his circumstances, his conditioning, his script n it is unfair judging anybody based on our limited understanding.
With ourselves also we at times become so harsh that it may hinder our progress in many ways.It can disturb us mentally, emotionally and rupture our self esteem.Most of the times we don’t judge self or others consciously but we operating out of conditioning and old habit.
Conscious efforts can help us get away with this habit.Instead of judging, we need to be more compassionate and understanding.
We need to understand the situation rather than the person.
Power always lies within us!!
